"I would like to be a simple man I'd buy me a farm and live off the land"--lenny kravitz

visiting the dancing rabbit has been a long time dream of mine. i was first exposed to this intentional community when i was really interested in morgan spur lock's work after watching 'super size me'. he later worked on a project called '30 days' where he explored more things for a months time. i also engaged in viewing his work when he documented 'life on minimum wage', which was filmed in columbus, ohio. i found the program to be interesting, so i continued to watch other segments. shortly after the one about columbus, their was one titled 'living off the grid' which was filmed at dancing rabbit. i immediately became interested in this echo village, despite the editing. let it be known and much like so many other factors of life, after having experienced different things, i in fact have different opinions than before. i too would have thought a lot of ideas were 'far out there, hippie shit' or containing overwhelming cult-like qualities. i think that is how so many people live their lives: they familiar with the little that they know, which has shaped their opinions of all things they have never experienced. i have found now my stand is far more simple: if you are not hurting anyone/anything (including yourself) then who i am to judge? anyway…

i signed up to receive the newsletter from dancing rabbit (DR) shortly after watching the show. i often read the news from the village in my cubicle, daydreaming of the life i could have there. it always provided some sort of hope for me, like if nothing else worked out, i could always have this option. the concept, something i often dream of, i have now realized even clearer is my ultimate goal out of life. we tend to spend so much of our time on outside factors, like: you spend a million hours working a job that serves someone else, when you could put all that time into yourself and your community. i have always liked the idea of working to live and not much else. like you would work to build your own home, you would work in your garden to feed yourself, you would work with your peers to build relationships, ect. all this work goes into LIVING your life as opposed to always planning for it. these notions would take so many things we worry about (mainly, money) out of the equation. not entirely, but it would be less of the focus of your daily activities. i am so grateful that my visit to DR only reassured me that there are places in this world where my dream could become a reality.

it was a bit of a drive from kansas city. open spaces, hilly country roads with little civilization. this visit was serendipitous. i had looked into visiting DR before and had some more challenges, but this time, i received a cute email from a resident named cob, who agreed to house us. i had asked for permission to camp on the property, but cob offered us a place to stay inside his home. we wanted to go to the public tour that was held on saturday, but it would be a long drive to just go for a couple hour tour? so this worked out great. it was a little challenging finding DR as it really is in the middle of nowhere, but we eventually made it.

cob was waiting for us on a porch swing, which was nice because as i was walking into the village i felt like it was the first day of school or something. nervous!!!! i feel like showing some picture would be invasive, although these folks have agreed to be more or less in a fish bowl. a big part of their mission is outreach, so i know they wouldn't mind, but i guess i do? we didn't take that many pictures anyway as were trying to live in the moment and my brain was on fire most of the time.

we greet cob and he instantly begins showing us around. this place is magical.

this was a beautifully rehabbed school bus! 

a tender moment with a father and his daughter, watching the sunset

a pond where some of the gray water is drained into to

i loved the sheep. i was a little disturbed when cob told me one of them was going to be his (as in he was going to eat them) but it was kind of refreshing to learn that despite what the show made it look like, not everyone here is vegan or even vegetalrian. i think that is what struck me most about DR and probably what is making it work so well: to each his own. they have lots of room for individuality and freedoms to your own life. you can be as involved or as removed from the community as you want. i think we both just assumed their would be all these regulations and there really weren't.

as we toured the village, it represented that freedom. some homes appeared to be very conventional looking, although one the few regulations are to have sustainable materials. even still, they looked like any types of homes you are familiar with. others were less polished. either way, it was nice to see you could do whatever you wanted. some of the structures were so amazing, with creative details.

i think some people have an assumption that ecco building has to be ugly or unpolished, just not true! it actually requires a lot of pre-planning, like this is where a book shelf will go:

we did the friday circle with the village and had a meal made at cob's family home, thistledown. we ate in the common house. after dinner we played a soccer game which was so fun for me. i hadn't realized how much i missed the game. after the game, we walked around a bit. we had a great conversation with marqis on the porch swing. i can only imagine that this was one of many examples where you could learn so much from people in this village. marqis had been living in/around/at various intentional communities for years, this was one man with all the resources one would need! 

we had a nice sleep (after we dismantled the coo coo clock) and woke in the morning to a lovely breakfast of blueberry pancakes and sausage of the pork and soy varieties. we chatted a bit with morgan, the oldest of the children living at DR at age 17. first of all, talking to some of these children, at least the teenaged ones was kind of disturbing. just because it is hard to believe their age! they speak with such poise and confidence, so much more familiar with interacting with adults than perhaps other children. morgan informed us that he, much like most 17 year olds, can't wait to get out of there. he wants to go to MIT. that is right all judgmental people, kids at hippie communes end up going to MIT. eat that! after breakfast, we agreed to help with the emptying of the humanure buckets. nicknamed: humi. i told cob i wanted to be involved as i knew that was a big part of the community. they have all composting toilets. eric and i load up a cart of about 3 weeks worth of shit from his families home. now, the thing i will say about this experience:  i wouldn't let 3 weeks worth of shit pile up. festering. i mean, dumping a couple buckets, no probs. but 8? for first timers like us, it was pretty gnarly. cob having changed the diapers of 3 boys was a total professional. 

i kept reminding eric to breath through his mouth as i was trying to do. as soon as he cleared his throat, i knew it was over. i am sure vomitting while doing a humi rotation is pretty common. all a part of the fun folks!

we then taught everyone we could find the dance video, our largest to date at nine people! we then took another naked dip in the swimming pond. man, there is nothing better than swimming naked! i feel so proud of my growth, i wasn't insecure at all by being naked in front of strangers. there is something about having security with your body and when others do too, it just seems to help. totally liberating! eric became a naked mud monster! a guy on the other side of the pond, swimming with his naked children was covering himself in mud. eric saw this and quickly said 'i want to do that!'. he swam over to the other side. you know people are cool when you are putting mud on your naked body and the guy says 'do you want me to get you back?'. two men putting mud on each other is an amazing sight to be seen!

a censored picture, of course

it really is too hard to describe the short visit to dancing rabbit…i can only suggest you go visit yourself. it is totally inspiring and fills you with hope. if you ever wonder how you will ever afford to buy a house, start your business or fulfill your dream, a visit to this magical place can rejuvenate you! return to being a believer! all things are possible.

that is a solar oven right there!

we say our goodbyes to the rabbits and head to st.louis for what is becoming the usual gig at pop's blue moon. this gig is always nice, filled with super fans who sing all of eric's song. st. louis has become such great stop for us, both of us having great friends there. we get into town and head directly to Pi Pizzeria, which i had read about on veganasauras as having vegan deep dish pizza! (you could say i am on a bit of a pizza bender?) i am pretty used to getting a pizza sans cheese, but when there are options, i am always down to try. well, this was kind of a disaster. our waitress might have been the most miserable person ever. trust me, i get it, you hate your job, but why do you have to take us all down with you? shit girl, move on. anyway...turns out, according to cranky-britches, you have to call ahead so they can NOT put butter on the deep dish pan. riiiiight. ok, so i got a thin crust pizza with vegetables and daiya cheese. (oh my god, they have daiya! )

we are having a lovely catch up with the always generous and amazing, colin and emily. the pizzas finally arrive and i get to watch as they enjoy their rad deep dish pizza, but whatevs. i take a bite of my pizza and.....weird. this doesn't taste like daiya? i eat an entire slice with cheese! i don't really care, i am not one of those militant, gives-it-all-a-bad-name kind of vegans, but really Pi pizzeria? that is bullshit. i tell snotty waitress chick, um is this real cheese? she was actually sympathetic. rolling her eyes, she takes my dairy pizza away. she says as someone who doesn't eat dairy that she is really sorry. the others eat while i just sit there. the owner (or someone else returns with my vegan pizza) and says how sorry he is and that the pizza is on them. well of course it is, biotch! i mumbled, well it is a good thing i am not dead. i mean, really folks, get it together. there are peeps with allergies out there. ok, my rant is done.

we head to pops for the gig. slowly, all our friends trickle in. it is so great to see my bestest absolute, jessica. after all the challenges of the road, something about being around her, just makes me feel better. all the other pics are dark...but we did set up the st.louis ninja coalition:

i went back with jessica while eric went back with colin and emily. i wanted to spend as much time with j as possible and like we have discovered, we do need our own time! the next morning, i spent it joyfully watching chase. i am not sure if it is just because it is my best friends child or he is just that awesome, but i am totally content at watching this little creature look at the world.

we hang out and catch up. we then go to colin and emily's house for a cookout. it is so nice again to see all our friends come together.

little man chase and his awesome mama!

we have delicious food and great conversation. my love affair with wee chase continues....

i am sure i have said it before, but there really isn't anything quite like a backyard bbq with some friends. so simple and so enjoyable. it is always only us that makes things complex.

luke, in the nassau beard shirt and jill with baby lillian in her shirt!

colin reading to us about distraction. we are all convinced we have ADD

jessica, relating.

it was such a lovely time. we say our goodbyes and eric and i return to wentzville to stay with jessica, sammy and chase. we relax on the back porch for the rest of the evening. while the huddz go off to work, eric and i got to sleep in an have a relaxing morning. we had intentions of going to the sculpture gardens, but it was rather dreary outside, so we opted to re-watch the 30 days show about dancing rabbit to see all the people we have met. we then head over to luke and jill's house, where  we had another great cook out. we visit with them and work on the blog while the boys play some flux. a restful nights sleep and we head off in the morning for our voyage back to columbus. 

i will settle back into life in c-bus, regroup and then i would like to summarize all that i have learned on the trip in the next post. those that have seen me have heard how maintaining this blog on the road has been rather difficult. it will be interesting to see if that changes once i am home.

as always, thanks for reading. cheers!